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GUILTING VERSUS ENCOURAGING CARING: AN ADVANCE LESSON

by Jeffrey Rubin, PhD

Last week’s post is titled, AN INTRODUCTION TO “GUILTING.”  There we compared “GUILTING” to “ENCOURAGING CARING.”  Both are different styles of making a request and reacting if someone refuses to help. GUILTING  People using guilting express sadness at the current state of affairs and then ask for assistance.  Upon having a request turned down, the person who employs guilting responds in anger while seeking to…

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